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Voter Outreach

Voter Outreach

Concepts, strategies and objectives to move voters to action

Written by Peter Grear Educate, Organize and Mobilize: Each week over the past several months I’ve written about various aspects of voter suppression with the purpose of explaining its concepts,…

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Keatts A Keeper For New-Look Seahawks

Keatts A Keeper For New-Look Seahawks

New Head Men’s Basketball Coach was all smiles

New Head Men’s Basketball Coach was all smiles at Trask Coliseum. WILMINGTON, NC – Boldly proclaiming, “I’m a winner,” and promising “an exciting brand of basketball” newly-christened UNCW head men’s basketball coach Kevin Keatts said Tuesday that a new day in Seahawk basketball has arrived.

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Lied-to Children More Likely to Cheat and Lie

Lied-to Children More Likely to Cheat and Lie

The study tested 186 children ages 3 to 7

The study tested 186 children ages 3 to 7 in a temptation-resistance paradigm. Approximately half of the children were lied to by an experimenter, who said there was “a huge bowl of candy in the next room” but quickly confessed this was just a ruse to get the child to come play a game. 

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Unconscious Mind Can Detect a Liar When Conscious Mind Fails

Unconscious Mind Can Detect a Liar When Conscious Mind Fails

The unconscious mind could catch a liar

“We set out to test whether the unconscious mind could catch a liar – even when the conscious mind failed,” says ten Brinke. Along with Berkeley-Haas Assistant Professor Dana R. Carney, lead author ten Brinke and Dayna Stimson (BS 2013, Psychology), hypothesized that these seemingly paradoxical findings may be accounted for by unconscious mental processes.

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Alliance of North Carolina Black Elected Officials: Educate, Organize, and Mobilize

Alliance of North Carolina Black Elected Officials: Educate, Organize, and Mobilize

North Carolina Alliance of Black Elected Officials

Written by Peter Grear, Esq.  Since August 2013 I've continued to ask myself "what would an effective campaign to defeat voter suppression look like?” Well, on Friday, February 14, 2014, Valentine's Day, I got my answer from Richard Hooker, President of the…

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The FREE Full PDF Edition includes stories not featured on the website. No paper, no hasel, read on your laptop or mobile devices. 

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Doctor to the Elderly Grapples with Own Father's Aging

Written by Featured Organization on 27 February 2009.

As a geriatrician, Jerald Winakur, M.D., has dedicated his career to helping the elderly live well and, when the time comes, die with grace. Even so, he was unprepared for his own father’s descent into disability and dementia. “I may be a geriatrician, but coming to grips with the ravages and the realities of the aging process in my father has been no easier for me than for anyone,” Dr. Winakur wrote in a new book, “Memory Lessons: A Doctor’s Story.” “Even though I have the experience to know what is coming, the training to describe in detail the pathologic progression of his disease, the medical vocabulary to document each step of his demise, I am powerless to prevent any of it.”

Dr. Winakur, a clinical professor of medicine and associate faculty member in the Center for Medical Humanities and Ethics at The University of Texas Health Science Center at San Antonio, wrote “Memory Lessons” to come to terms with his parents’ aging process, particularly that of his father.

Leonard Winakur was one of the “oldest old,” a gerontological term for those over age 85. The oldest old are the fastest-growing segment of American society: Their numbers will grow from about 4.5 million today to almost 10 million in 2030. Only one in 20 is fully mobile, and half are cognitively impaired. Leonard Winakur, who developed Alzheimer’s disease, was one of them.

At times, Dr. Winakur was able to draw upon his medical training. He knew which medications might calm his father when the elder Winakur grew agitated, delusional or abusive. And, with considerable assistance from his mother, his brother and a home health aide, Dr. Winakur was able to keep a promise he made when his father was in his early 80s: no more hospital stays.

But a medical degree could not prepare Dr. Winakur for the flash of anger he felt when his father, overwhelmed by the outside world, refused to attend the wedding of his first grandchild – Dr. Winakur’s eldest daughter. Specializing in geriatrics didn’t ease Dr. Winakur’s guilt as he wondered whether he could have been a better son. All of his training did not provide a solution when his demented father roamed the house at night, keeping his wife – who cared for him all day – awake until she was frantic.

“I am the doctor in the family; I have special knowledge, a learned patience, observational skills honed over decades,” Dr. Winakur wrote. “And still the nights are bad. My father is only getting worse.”
The story started out as an essay titled “What Are We Going To Do With Dad?” that appeared in Health Affairs, a health policy journal, in 2005. The Washington Post ran an excerpt, which was picked up by newspapers across the country. The essay struck a chord, and Dr. Winakur began receiving thousands of heartbreaking e-mail messages from people who were going through the same thing.
He was overwhelmed at first, but he came to the realization that those who wrote to him were not necessarily looking for answers: “They wanted to tell me their stories, just as I had told them mine.”
Dr. Winakur’s story had unexpected bright spots. While his father had been stoic all his life, dementia swept away those inhibitions, allowing him to freely express affection for his sons. “It was always a surprise when he said, ‘I love you, too,’” Dr. Winakur said.

His father’s final days also rekindled in Dr. Winakur the idealism and innate compassion that he had when he first went into medicine.
Even as he cherished these gifts, Dr. Winakur knew all too well that there was only one way his father’s story could end: “There is no triumph over aging, after all.”
 
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